You might think this is a silly question or things to do. Well, take a minites to think about what people want from you then. If you found none, you’re having serious problem. You’re going to be lost or already lost. If you don’t know or not sure, think about how to find out.

One major part of your life is contributing to the society. Even when you are a kid, you starts to contribute, your parents want you to grow strong, get good score in school, and not get yourself hurt in anyway. See, people want a lot of thing from you even you weren’t aware of. But they need you, and you need the demand to be needed. This is the way to contribute what you have, and by doing that, you define the major part of yourself to be who you are. Think about it, what people want from you is what defines who you might possibly are ? It’s silly and childish to think of this oppersite way, so don’t get personal if someone asks too much of you, they didn’t offer you in the right way, but they did offer you something at least.

Another major part of your life journal is to find out what you want. This is no contradicting to find out what people want from you. On the contrary, they’re actually complementary to each other. First of all, the talent or skill you can offer gives you a solid confidence to negotiate the thing you want, and then by finding out what you want refines the life image that you aim for, so you don’t get confused sometimes. And trust me, everybody want something. It’s not selfish, people need nutrient and care to grow at the first place, without it, we cry and cry till we get attention. There’s no shame to find out what you want and let others know that needs. Once you done that, you’ll act on it right away without hesitation, since you already figure out the logic behind. Let other to know that you need them is one of the best way to share and cooperate. The more you get from them, the more you want to do things for them, since things is getting natural later.

All in all, if you ever find yourself lost in the jungle or something, try ask yourself who needs you, if you can’t be sure, go find out and make it positive attitude. And meanwhile find out what you want from them. Make yourself available, and make yourself happy. In return, you make everyone around you happy.

Fang